You ever notice when women are dumped or there's a dude they're feeling who isn't feeling them, they allllllll of a sudden become religious fanatics? No? Maybe it's just me...but I've noticed quite a few women do this. All of a sudden it's all about "leaving it in God's hands"..."HE wasn't God sent"..and all that shyt.
I could see if he did you soooo wrong you have to pray for the strength not to pay a nukka back. I can even see if it was a dude you were MARRIED to or you have children by or you've been with for YEARS because I know long term emotional attachments are hard to break, but a lot of the time it was a little short term SITUATION (not to be confused with a relationship) to begin with. So why are you trippin' so hard?
If you have a strong relationship with God...great! If you found a new love for him...even better, but be genuine. Don't get all fake religious because you think the big guy is gonna take pity on you and hook a sista up. I doubt it works that way.
I forget who it was (maybe Dave) who had a fb or gtalk status that went something like this..."maybe God heard your prayer...and he said no." Sometimes that's how it is...things just don't go your way. That's life. Shit happens...suck it up...keep it moving.
That's my little random PSA.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Random Thoughts.
Posted by Jazzy at 9:32 PM
Labels: PSA, Random, short and sweet
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Oh no you didn't call it a "Situation"... you mean a "jump-off", right? LOL
Yeah, some of us women get all religious... losing that man hurt so much that you need Jesus! (until the next jump-off show up).
It'a allll about motives. Like you said, be genuine.
ROTFL @ situation. Lololol. "Don't get all fake religious because you think the big guy is gonna take pity on you and hook a sista up." You are a MESS!!
Well, J-Diva, however it seems ever more based off of this post you are still the Diva of Opinions, I think I might have to disagree with you on this one...
I don't think they ladies are becoming religious fanatics...I think it's a defense mechanism. Instead of looking all stupid in the face, they pull that, "Well, he wasn't what God had for me anyway, girl...hmm hmph."
What are they supposed to say, "He got the booty and kicked me to the curb, like last week's garbage"...c'mon now!
I also think some girls use it as self hope. I think a lot of people say things to boast self esteem, self assurance, self motivation...and even self hope. I think you say things to help get you through to the next time. To give yourself the belief or in some cases illusion, that gets you through the rough times. I think that for some God represents that. God represents Hope and Faith.
So these girls are telling themselves that "He wasn't God Sent," or "They are leaving it up to God's hands," as hope that next time they fall for ole dude with Good hair and can lay pipe, like no plumber in the city; it will work out, or they don't fall into the jump-off category again.
I think if anything they need to be religious fanatics before they get married then after they get married and been with a nigga for years and had some children. I am all for having God all up and through your marriage, but I think before you say your "I Do's" is when you need to be all religious fanatical.
It's a lot easier to just say he wasn't God sent or how you didn't leave it in God's hand when all you did was pop that coochie and got into a short term situation...than to say that after you exchanged vows, merged assets, went half on few babies, and merged emotions and bills long term. Not saying it hasn't been done and people have been better for, ask Ike and Tina.
They maybe rocking the fake religious, but God knows the heart, and he knows that he won't no where near the "situation" situation...but maybe rocking the fake will eventually turn into the genuine feelings.
See and another thing, some people J-Diva, fall very fast and hard with the emotions...and they take their "situations" seriously like lesbians.
They all aren't as tough and badass as you, and Don't easily roll over and play fetch with the dick and heart, so fast...like I'm sure you don't.
Its sad when people wanna either blame God, or blame anyone else for that matter.
How bout its YOU!!
get your shit together, and move on.
oh, hey JAZZ!!
He's bacccckkkkkk!!! LOL
lol.. I'm glad someone liked my status.
People look to God for answers... sometimes they just ask the wrong questions.
I agree and disagree.
one, i love dave's quote. and i think its right. sometimes you ask God for something and you don't get it, and you may never and may later. in the end, it comes at the right time.
however....
i do think there is value in seeking out a relationship wtih God after a bad situation. not becuase you are blaming anyone or you are trying to escape or even save face. seeking God may be the mechanism you use to learn from your mistakes. Perhaps, its a way to recognize that you've strayed from following his instructions and that what you want to do is get back in His good graces. Afterall, we are taught that Hi is a forgiving God and that we can return to seek His assistance at any time. One might be asking what there is to learn from the last situation. and you might also be seeking wisdom not to make the same mistake in the future.
that being said, i've found myself more religious after my last relationship. but there was a convergance of things (job loss, illness, family drama, a need for peace and stability) that led to this. I fall in and out of my religious fervor, with or without the provocation of a man.
um, i feel like i've written a blog on your comment section. But i say all this to say that one should always be seeking God, so whatever is leading you towards Him doesn't really matter, as long as you find Him. and two, there may be more to it than the "maybe if i get religious he'll send me a decent man." if people think that's a direct correlation, they would be very mistaken cause i've seen more wonderful God loving without the life partner they desire than i have women who have cared less.
Jazz, get out of my head with this post!
LMAO....this is sooo true.
It's been forever since I've been on my computer, forget how hilarious your posts can be.
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