I was planning to write about something else, but the lazy in me decided to just clean out my draft folder lol. I don't think I posted this yet did I?
Don't you just hate when one of your friends talks to you about their mate or a potential mate and you both agree that this s/o or potential s/o is all wrong for them…you might even laugh together as you list all the reasons why things aren't going to work…(maybe it's because he's controlling, or she's crazy, or he has anger issues, whatever) and then you learn (not from the friend) that they went back or started a new relationship with said person?? I'm thinking…huh???? But I thought you just said xyz…no?? Ok…do you.
Staying out of it and wishing them well is the easy part. The hard part is when the s/o shows their true colors…and you're trying to be there as a friend, when you really want to say, "I told your naive ass this would happen." I cannot tell you how many covert operations I've participated in, trying to catch a KNOWN cheater…how many times I've sat on the phone listening to friends drone on and on about a KNOWN deadbeat dad…how many times I've listened to my guy friends complain about their "crazy ass girl baby momma/girlfriend/wife". As Judge Judy often says, "YOU PICKED HER/HIM!" I don't say that though.
Eh…we do what we must for friends, but this is really getting old. If it seems wrong, if he seems like a dog, if she seems like a stalker, if she seems like a gold diggin ho, if he seems like a lazy good for nuthin mf'r etc etc….why can't people just trust their first instinct?
I really hope things work out with both of the friends I'm thinking about though.
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Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Toxic Relationships
Posted by Jazzy at 5:00 PM
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My patience is thin. After hearing someone complain about the something the second time without making any changes, I'm telling you off! I'm a good listener but I can only listener to bullshyt for so long.
There is a limit to the complaining and whining. LOL
I say it once, and don't mention it again,"This is what YOU WANTED, RIGHT!"
No patience for stupidity. If we discussed the fuckery and all the possible oh hell no's and you STILL choose to get with him/her I have no words for you. I just sit and wait for the inevitable.
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